You ‘can’t’ meditate because you believe your mental chatter and habits dictate the actions you take. You ‘can’t’ approach because other people’s opinions dictate how he lives his life. The word ‘can’t’ indicates that you believe there’s something other than the decisions you makes, that controls your actions. Mostly by the fact that they represent one of the indicators of the ‘Getting’ pathway.Īs you’re reading through this, think about either the kind of language you use, or the kind of thoughts that run through your head but you never say out aloud, and see where you might fall. These 5 words are presented in no particular order and are all very related. 5 Words That Give Away That You’re Still ‘Getting’ To save you having to jump on a private coaching call to figure out where you are and what’s going on beneath the layers, I’ve put together the 5 most powerful words I listen for so you can diagnose where you are for yourself. They think they’re on the ‘Doing’ path, powering ahead, and can’t understand why they’re still keep getting rejected and feeling terrible about it. The funny thing is that most guys aren’t aware of this. Over the years, I’ve refined it down to 5 words that I look for in the way a guy speaks that give away that he’s still in ‘Getting’ and will continue to suffer through all the barriers that come from ‘Getting’ until the issue is fixed. There are obvious body language traits and facial expressions which are simple to see, but given that most of my coaching work is done through Skype and email, it’s meant that I’ve needed to be able to pick up these signals through language. In my nearly 7 years of coaching, I’ve learned to pick up on subtle clues that gives away what’s REALLY going on behind the scenes, despite what a guy might think.
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